So, you adopted a rescue dog—amazing! But now your new pup is acting like a shy ghost, refusing food, hiding under the couch, or giving you the classic “who are you and why am I here?” look. Don’t panic!
Adjusting to a new home is a huge change for any dog, and that’s where the 3-3-3 Rule comes in. This simple guide helps set expectations for the first three days, three weeks, and three months after adoption. Just remember: every dog is different, so while this timeline is helpful, some dogs might take longer (or shorter) to settle in.
The First 3 Days: Decompression Mode
Your new dog is likely feeling overwhelmed, confused, or even scared. Everything is new—the smells, the people, the routine. Some common behaviors include:
Hiding or seeking solitude
Ignoring food or water
Testing boundaries
Sleeping a lot or being restless
Not engaging much with you or their surroundings
What You Can Do:
Give them a safe, quiet space where they can retreat if needed.
Stick to a simple routine—consistent mealtimes, potty breaks, and walks.
Avoid overwhelming them with too much attention, training, or new experiences right away.
Be patient! They need time to process everything before they can start feeling at home.
The First 3 Weeks: Settling In and Building Trust
After the initial adjustment, your dog will start to feel more comfortable and may begin to show their personality. This is also the time when behavioral issues may emerge as they test boundaries and settle into their environment. Some signs of progress include:
Becoming more engaged with family members
Figuring out household rules (sometimes by testing them!)
Getting into a daily routine
Letting their guard down and showing their true personality
What You Can Do:
Keep up with consistent training and structure—gentle reinforcement helps them feel secure.
Be patient with behavioral hiccups—they’re still adjusting.
Introduce new things slowly (like guests, car rides, or other pets) so they don’t get overwhelmed.
The First 3 Months: Feeling at Home
By the three-month mark, most dogs fully settle into their new home. They begin to feel truly comfortable, forming strong bonds and gaining confidence. You might notice:
A relaxed, happy demeanor
Trust and affection growing stronger
Full integration into the family routine
More consistent behavior and training progress
What You Can Do:
Keep reinforcing positive behaviors and providing structure.
Continue building trust through training, playtime, and bonding activities.
Remember: Every dog is different! Some may take longer, and that’s okay.
Final Thoughts
Not all dogs follow the 3-3-3 timeline perfectly—some might take longer, some might adjust more quickly. The key is patience, consistency, and understanding. Every small step is progress, and the journey of watching your rescue dog grow into their best self is worth it!